I guess I keep going back to "a year ago..."
Perfect example. Emma recently got her ears pierced. They need to be cleaned and turned every night. She doesn't like it. It hurts her. The other night Julie asked me to restrain her. Afterward I was shaking. The idea of restraining my kid while a painful procedure is done... Been there, done that, had enough of it.
Things are bothering me. I just need to get through it.